Childrens fears & phobias

than adults, and experience the emotion of them more intensely.

Such fears may start and stop for little apparent reason as the child develops.

Novelty, unpredictability and sudden changes can also induce fear in children, and illness might 'put them back', reviving old fears that they had put behind them at an earlier age. Adults also teach children to fear certain things before the child has even come across them, through their words or actions. Children may also 'pick up' the fears of adults in their family. But children who have phobias at an early age usually develop into normal adults.

being left alone, inconsistent discipline, toilet training, bath, bedtime, monsters

and ghosts, bed wetting, disabled people, death and injury.

Age 4-6: fear of darkness and imaginary creatures. Also animals, bedtime, monsters and ghosts. Other fears, such as of strangers seem to be persistent.

the ages of three and six sometimes confuse reality, dreams

and fantasy.
Young children may also sometimes believe that inanimate or non-living objects have lifelike qualities. They may too have inaccurate concepts of size relationships (monsters that can come up through plug-hole for example).

in the dark and injections.
13 year-olds seem to fear

heights as well as the three mentioned above.

children with phobias experience varies a great deal, from very

mild anxiety to very severe panic and terror. A mild degree of nervousness in particular situations is not usually a problem, but it is only a matter of degree, and at the other end of the scale there are children who have full-scale panic attacks when in the dreaded situation, and soon refuse to enter it altogether because of the terror that grips them at such times.

breathing
* dizziness
* 'jelly legs'
* feeling 'unreal'
* intense sweating
* feeling

faint
* dry throat
* restricted or 'fuzzy' vision or hearing.

SOME SYMPTOMS

can be treated in much the same way as they

are in adults; that is by desensitisation through being exposed to the feared situation. However, as children's fears are often volatile and transitory the child's previous record with fears should be considered before launching into an elaborate treatment programme.

With young children especially, practical activities that involve exposure could also be turned into a game, since most children respond better to play than to work.

try to help by gently challenging the child’s thought processes.

If the child refuses all help then the parent could usefully talk to a doctor or therapist without the child being present in order to learn ways to apply help at such time that the child is willing to accept it.

If this is the case, one technique suggested by Anxiety Care is to ask the child what he or she thinks a close friend would be feeling in this situation.
When the child resists support, it can become very difficult.

of child's fears, and should let him/ her know that

grown-ups, too, are sometimes afraid.

Give loving support and reliable limits. The child needs to know he / she is loved.