Слайд 1Theme: Ways of being happy in marriage.
МИНИСТЕРСТВО ОБРАЗОВАНИЯ И НАУКИ
РК
КАЗАХСКИЙ УНИВЕРСИТЕТ МЕЖДУНАРОДНЫХ ОТНОШЕНИЙ И МИРОВЫХ ЯЗЫКОВ
Факультет перевода и филологии
Кафедра
теории и практики иностранных языков
Дисциплина: ОПИЯ
Prepared by: Sarniyazova Sulushash.
Askatov Al’-Farabi
Katabaeva Dinara
Serikhan Madina 317 group
Checked by: Lyan V.V.
Almaty 2013
Слайд 2Content
1) Marital Union
Advantages
Disadvantages
2) “Innocent Victims”
3) Marriage Facts
4) Low income
Problem
5)
Wedding for Happiness
Kazakhstan
Russia
Greek
6) Building Relationship
Workaholic parents
Divorce/Quarel
7) Mother’s Affection
8) Over the
past Decades
Motive of marriages in 1950s
Divorce rate
9) The present days
After high school
Divorce rate
10) Conclusion
Слайд 3Problems:
1) High percentage of divorces, unhappy families with low
income.
2) Harmful psychological impact on children because of matrimonial
problems, relationship between parents etc.
Goals of project:
1) To find out the most optimal solution as for middle-class families so for low-income families.
2) To prove that divorces, failures in marriages are not a blame of your parents but yours.
Слайд 41) Marital Union
I believe most people would agree a happy
marriage is one of life’s great treasures. Unfortunately, the odds
of making a good marital union are not in our favor. We have a divorce rate around the world of at least fifty percent.
Слайд 5Advantages
Social scientists believe that only around twenty-five percent of all
marriages work satisfactorily, and some believe the percentage is as
low as ten percent. The children from this small group of successful families usually have the best chance to achieve their optimal potential.
Слайд 6Disadvantages
The offspring (children) from the other seventy-five percent are often
emotionally handicapped (инвалид) to some degree. In other words, an
awful lot of people are living less than satisfactory lives.
Слайд 72)”Innocent Victims”
A certain amount of smug satisfaction comes from believing
we are entirely innocent and our partners are completely guilty.
We are angels. They are devils.
if you can discover how you have influenced the troublesome situation, you increase your ability to correct it.
Слайд 83) Marriage Facts
Children who grow up living in an intact
household with both biological parents present seem to do better,
on average, on a wide range of social indicators than do children who grow up in a single-parent household. For example, they are less likely to drop out of school, become a teen parent, be arrested, and be unemployed.
Слайд 94) Low Income
Not surprisingly, low-income couples have fewer resources to
cope with life's vagaries. They are more likely to experience
job loss, have an unexpected health or family crisis, be evicted from or burned out of their home, be the victim of a violent crime, and so forth.
low-income couples are not less likely to marry; but they are more likely to divorce when they do marry.
Слайд 10Problem
the problems low-income couples have to manage — problems such
as substance abuse, job loss, eviction, chronic infidelity, a child
with a chronic condition like asthma or developmental delays, and criminal activities — may be more severe than those confronted by better-off couples.
Слайд 11Wedding Happiness
We want to believe that, if done correctly ,
that is to comply with all the signs , listen
to the parables , and to act according to certain rules , the newlyweds will spend a long and happy married life
Al’-Farabi
Слайд 12Kazakhstan
The Kazakh people honoring the ancestral customs and traditions. According
to adat - marriage between relatives up to the seventh
generation of banned such taboo helps to prevent blood- related confusions and , as a consequence - a positive effect on the health of future offspring .
Слайд 13Wedding ceremony
1)Kudalyk
2)Kyzuzatu
3)Betashar
Also during the wedding ceremony , the couple
must work together to drink a bowl of water in
which the dissolved sugar and salt. By giving , this ritual - the guarantor of a happy family life.
Слайд 14Russian
As for Russia , the wedding usually coincides with the
state registration of marriage. Making a wedding ceremony is only
possible if there is evidence of the marriage of government . At the same time, the wedding - it's more than just a wedding , it is also a remarkable series of rituals.
Слайд 15Wedding Ceremony
The bride's attire
To a young marriage has
found happiness at the wedding must be an odd number
, then the union of the newlyweds will be long and strong.
Drinking tradition of the wedding :
To happiness of the bride no one stole , she should not try to give her dress , veil or ring.
Слайд 16Greek
The first of the Greek wedding ceremonies is the matchmaking
. Matchmakers are selected from relatives or friends.
A very important
point is the wedding ceremony joining a young wife in her husband's house . Every place where the bride enters are marked by special acts of itself and other participants in the ceremony. For example, meets her mother-in with the bread and the belt, which puts it on the threshold. Young has to step over them: if steps over the right foot - a good sign , left - bad .
Слайд 17Apart from traditions
Trusting each other , you strengthen the harmony
and balance in the house, supporting each other, you fill
the new opportunities and confidence , and the first steps to a successful life
Слайд 186) Building The Relationship
To build a positive and close relationship
between parents and children is not as easy as it
seems to be. It’s really a hard work but we always have the way out.The relationship between parents and children in the USA is almost like in Russia, especially when the children are small. Both parents in America and in Russia want their children to be happy, clever, healthy and well educated. But there are some differences.
Dinara
Слайд 19Workaholic Parents
Sometimes the parents are too crazy about their job
that they forget about their function- to take care of
their children. And they devote most of the time to their work.
Слайд 20Divorce/Quarrel
In some cases the reason of misunderstanding is the
effect of divorce or just quarrels between the parents. It
often happens that the children don’t want to realize that the parents don’t love each other any more, but they still love their children.
Слайд 217) Mothers Affection
First, children need their mother’s affection. Second, they
want to have a mother who helps them in their
studies and in their own life. Unfortunately, they are deprived of this right, for, the mother works all the day outside and at home.
Finally, children need their mother with them all the day to make them feel self confident.
Слайд 228)Over the past Decades
Over the past decades, the view of
marriage has been sifting. It is true that marriages in
the 1950s lasted a lot longer, but back then divorces were considered a taboo subject.
Madina
Слайд 23Motives of marriage in the 1950s
The motives behind marriages of
the 1950s consists of the fact that people were expected to start
off their lives right after High School.
The husband was expected to work and financially support the family while the wife had the stay at home duties of taking care of the children along with cleaning and cooking.
Слайд 24Divorce Rate
Typically, it was custom for girls as young as
19 and boys as young as 21 to get married.
Back
then, the divorce rates were 23 percent. Of course that did not mean all marriages in the 50s were happy.
Слайд 259) The Present Days
In today's marriage, both spouses have to
work in order to financially support their family. The average
age for people to get married are as young as 27 for men and as young as 25 for women.
Слайд 26Motives of marriages
The motives of marriage have changed since most
parents do expect their children to go to college right
after high school rather than marry.
Слайд 27Divorce Rate
The divorce rate is 50 percent which causes some
people to wonder if today's society takes marriage seriously. Along
with a high divorce rate, there has been a growth of single parent families as well, since the society's views on divorce aren't as strict with it as before.
Слайд 2810) Conclusion
Clearly, to make a successful, loving marriage you must
find the right partner, but it is also important that
you be the right partner.
Sulu
