Слайд 2Miss America 2003 Erika Harold
Слайд 3"As Miss America 2003, I will work with the White
House Office of National Drug Control Policy, the U.S. Department
of Education, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention to pursue an integrated marketing strategy that builds grassroots support, enhances visibility and awareness, creates brand identity, and supports the mission of leadership and empowerment central to both my platform of preventing youth violence and the Miss America Organization."
Слайд 4What is Bullying?
Bullying is when someone gets hurt intentionally. The
bullied person may be kicked, pushed, punched, called names, teased,
or have anything happen to them that is intended to upset them.
Слайд 5How does Bullying make people feel?
She has taken all my
friends away. When I go home at night, I’m depressed
and cry.
Слайд 6How does Bullying make people feel?
One time I wouldn’t eat
because of people calling me “fat.”
Слайд 7How does Bullying make people feel?
I pray to make the
bullies better people, but it really upsets me because none
of my friends stick up for me. They just sit there and laugh.
Слайд 8How does Bullying make people feel?
I feel lonely, and I
want some advice about how to feel better about myself
going to school.
Слайд 9Who gets Bullied?
You may think that you have to be
different before you get bullied, be new to the school,
be very tall or short, speak differently or live in a different type of house.
Слайд 10Who gets Bullied?
However, this need not be the case!
Anybody can
become the victim of bullying. You may simply be in
the wrong place at the wrong time.
Слайд 11Who gets Bullied?
What is certain is …
IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT!
Слайд 12Who are the Bullies?
Are they bigger?
Слайд 13Who are the Bullies?
Are they older?
Слайд 14Who are the Bullies?
Are they boys?
Слайд 15Who are the Bullies?
Are they girls?
Слайд 16Who are the Bullies?
In most cases, bullies are normal children
who find themselves in a situation where it seems OK
to bully.
Слайд 17Characteristics of a Bully:
Physical strength is greater than their victim
Слайд 18Characteristics of a Bully:
Usually older than their victim
Слайд 19Characteristics of a Bully:
Try to “push around” classmates, parents, teachers,
and brothers/ sisters
Слайд 20Characteristics of a Bully:
Have no guilt in what they do
to others
Wasn’t it funny when I hit that coward and
he cried like a baby?
You think that was funny? Hey, man, don’t push me!
Слайд 21Characteristics of a Bully:
They have a skill at seeming innocent
and talking their way out of situations when caught.
Слайд 22Characteristics of a Bully:
They don’t obey authority and pay no
attention to rules
No Running in Hallways
Слайд 23Characteristics of a Bully:
They don’t care about other people’s feelings
and make fun of others when they are feeling down
or hurting
Слайд 24Characteristics of a Bully:
They are interested in bullying for thrill,
power, and a sense of control
Слайд 25What can Bullying include?
Physical violence (shoving, punching, tripping, kicking, etc.
Слайд 26What can Bullying include?
“Making fun” of other people (calling them
“fatty”, “dummie”, or other mean names)
Слайд 27What can Bullying include?
Threats to beat up after school
I’ll get
you after school!
Слайд 28What can Bullying include?
Stealing or robbing of possessions
Слайд 29What can Bullying include?
Making unfriendly gestures and/or spreading rumors
Слайд 30What can Bullying include?
Purposely ignoring you in a mean way
Слайд 31How to deal with a Bully:
The acronym “Ha Ha SO”
can be helpful for victims to remember when dealing with
a bully:
Слайд 32How to deal with a Bully:
“H” = Help
If you’re being
bullied, get help by going to a teacher, counselor, or
administrator and tell them exactly what is happening.
Ha, Ha, SO
Слайд 33How to deal with a Bully:
“A” = Avoid
Walk away in
order to avoid a bully situation, try not to be
alone—there is safety in numbers.
Ha, Ha, SO
Слайд 34How to deal with a Bully:
“H” = Humor
Sometimes a sense
of humor can help to stop a bullying situation.
Ha, Ha,
SO
Слайд 35How to deal with a Bully:
“A” = Assert
Stand your ground,
look the bully straight in the eyes and tell him/her
to stop. Make sure you’re not alone if you try this!
Ha, Ha, SO
Слайд 36How to deal with a Bully:
“S” = Self Talk
Self talk
is used to keep feeling good about yourself:
“I am
a good kid.”
“I try my best at school, and I’m nice to other kids.”
Ha, Ha, SO
Слайд 37How to deal with a Bully:
“O” = Own It
If a
bully says that your clothing is ugly, say something like:
“I
know, but my mom gave it to me for my birthday and I didn’t want to hurt her feelings so I wore it.”
Ha, Ha, SO
Слайд 38Advice from Kids
Some girls were cutting me out and making
mean remarks about my clothes. I told myself, ‘they’ll get
tired of this if you don’t react. You can handle it. You have other friends.’
Tessa, 11
Слайд 39Advice from Kids
A boy in my class kept calling me
an “idiot.” My dad told me to think about the
time I made a goal in soccer and everybody cheered when I did.
Matt, 10
Слайд 40Advice from Kids
When kids tease, I imagine I’m a big
tree. I imagine their words are the wind blowing through
the branches, but they can’t hurt the tree.
Melissa, 7
Слайд 41What else can you do?
If you are being bullied:
Speak to
your parents
Speak to your friends
Keep a record of the bullying
Слайд 42What else can you do?
If you know someone who is
being bullied:
Go with them to their counselor
If they won’t go,
offer to speak for them to their counselor
Слайд 43What else can you do?
If you know someone who is
being bullied:
Encourage your friend to tell their parents
Don’t try to
deal with the problem yourself
Слайд 44You are not alone!
In school, we are here to help
you tackle bullying. There are experienced teachers, counselors, and administrators
that you can trust and who will work with you and your parents to
STOP BULLYING!