Problems in the family

due to socio-economic turmoil the country is experiencing great difficulties.

Russian society in the socio-economic crisis, is unable to help and support the institution of the family. Unable to withstand external destructive onslaught, the family is falling apart. The main goal of the modern family today to survive.
- Low level of culture of family relations
- Increasing mutual demands of the spouses to each other (This is why specialists are usually called in last turn)

The above qualifications and delineation of the causes takes place only in the theoretical analysis. In real life, psycho-emotional, physiological and social factors are closely interrelated.
Along with the negative phenomena in family-marital relations, leading to family breakdown, there were also positive trends in the growth of self-consciousness spouses.
It should be noted that the objective of social cause of the deterioration of the family relations is the low level of social services, social work with the family mi.

of drugs.
Cohesion is defined as emotional connection, closeness, or affection

of family members. The concept of hierarchy used in the study of the structure of roles, rules within the family, as well as to determine the degree of influence of each family member on the other. The term "frontier" is used to describe the relationship between a family and its social environment (external boundary), as well as between different family members (the inner boundary). If the outer boundary is too rigid, limited to the exchange of information between the family and the environment, there comes the stagnation in the system, if weak, member of the family is more associated with the external environment than between them. If the internal boundaries between parents and children hard, the parents are concerned only with themselves; if weak, then there is a redistribution of roles in the family and intervention in the intimate sphere of each other. At internal borders there is also the notion of the "border generations", which reveals the nature of relationships within each of the generations of the family. In well-functioning families rules that govern the interactions between parents and between children differ from the rules of the parent-child relationship. Parent dyads show a higher degree of cohesion.Almost 95% of cases of drug abuse in adolescents, we are faced with families where these options are disrupted and have a negative impact on the personality development of the child.In the structure of families include relationships: marital, parent-child, between brothers and sisters (refer to sibs), and between relatives.

Both partners are characterized by the immaturity of family roles

and fail to take responsibility for the behaviour of the couple as a whole. Conflicts can be represented as contradictions, mainly in the areas of care and protection, as well as emotional acceptance when facing significant needs of the partners. One of the areas where manifestations of rivalry between spouses the most dangerous consequences is the education of the children. It is the mismatch of educational positions, requirements in relation to the child.

family members, reduced social and psychological adaptation, you lose the

ability to work together (inconsistency in the upbringing of children). The level of psychological stress in the family has a tendency to rise and, eventually, may lead to the formation of drug dependence at the teenager.
The representatives of the humanistic direction in psychology, consider breaking the marital relationship as a lack of satisfaction of needs in emotional relationships. They make attempts to analyze the family as a whole, drawing an analogy with the structure of the neurotic personality, using the category of protective mechanisms in the family.
To prevent awareness of the negative aspects of life at the level of family system formed the protective mechanisms (family myths, irrational beliefs, etc.). Protective mechanisms based on the splitting: if the couple disharmony are similar, the reasons for rejecting aspects of family life found outside the home. If disharmony is different, each partner unconsciously support of your spouse or child are the qualities which correspond to his own repressed tendencies. The existence of such a family of protective mechanisms leads to the fact that even clear signs of anesthesia a child to remain for a very long time "not noticed" parents.

in relation to the child or in society. But many

reasons the children of disobedience rooted in that child becoming a person, and focuses largely inherits the basic behavior patterns of their parents. If one spouse passes on deaf ears most of the comments or suggestions other then the little man formed an inner feeling that to do so normally. He is also responding to the just demands of adults and does not listen even in situations when parents behave very correctly. Thus, the first group of factors of the children of disobedience can be called causes associated with attention deficit.

issue in family relations. Parents clutching his head, not knowing

what to do with a rebellious child. All words and actions that were previously successful, at this stage are completely useless. The child is ready to explode for any reason, he reacts negatively to all the suggestions from their ancestors. In the end, parents and children fight. This can lead to very sad consequences (the hunger strike, leaving home, suicide). Even temporary alienation can dramatically change relations between relatives. If "cold notes" in the behavior of Chad are already visible, it's time to take action.

individual at any stage of development. This toxic substance causes

many irreversible disturbances in the body, mutilates man. And if adults are alcoholics themselves doomed to such an existence, what is to blame for their children? Consider the actual problems such as diseases of the offspring of alcohol-dependent parents and the future life of the children of chronic alcoholics. Disturbed psyche holding a baby in constant tension, pushes to condemn in society actions, such as constant lies. Over time, the child notices that it was used as a "stabilizer" capable of deterring the parent appetite for alcohol. But something did not work and contacts with the glass only intensified, and the child remained at "zero". Or conversely, it is plagued by excessive attention.
Thus, the alcoholism through the eyes of children is a reality with significant refraction. He is initially not perceived as adults – a way to relax, to "fill in" grief in vodka, etc. furthermore, alcohol directly affects the mental development of the child, which actively manifests itself during the school years remains for a lifetime.